There’s give and take in every relationship. Sometimes I do things I’m not terribly fond of because my partner is. Sometimes the other direction is true. I don’t do it frequently (because I don’t really like any aspect of it), but sometimes 🤷‍♀️ you do things for love.

As for pretending to enjoy it, it wouldn’t be much of a “reward” if I just visibly endured it. I don’t go with people who only think of themselves; they usually want me to enjoy myself as well. I can do something that I don’t really like for a while if it makes someone I love happy. And probably vice versa.