• Diddlydee@feddit.uk
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    4 months ago

    I used to get called gay because I rolled the sleeves up on my shirt. Also because I worked with a gay guy and occasionally had lunch with him, maybe half a dozen times a year. The odd thing is that I had a girlfriend (same one 22 years later) who these idiots knew about.

  • hardcoreufo@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Was a mid 2000s hipster wearing skinny jeans and bright colors. Non hipster girls thought I was gay. Honestly frat bros were generally more pleasant and if they thought I was gay never said anything and just handed me a beer.

    • starchylemming@lemmy.world
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      4 months ago

      and, how is your husband ?

      /jk

      somehow not being gay while not being gay was important while the real gays got accepted more. maybe it was a side effect of higher acceptance. kids of that time had to visibly distance themselves from stereotypical gay behaviour to appear more conformist?

  • edgemaster72@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Wait, shorts were gay? Does that include cargo shorts? Cuz there were a lot of cargo shorts at the time.

    Source: used to wear cargo shorts back then. I still do, but I used to too.

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        4 months ago

        No they mean a certain type of shorts that end above the knees. Not the shorts that are basically three quarters pants. The shorter they were the gayer you’d be.

        Gay:

        Not gay:

        • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
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          4 months ago

          Thank god I grew up in Europe. I would’ve been gay as fuck in America.

    • Texas_Hangover@sh.itjust.works
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      4 months ago

      That was especially hilarious when I learned about the “whig” party in early US history.

      “Holy shit! They were saying that back then??”

  • NewDayRocks@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 months ago

    On a slight tangent but movies and TV shows always reflect the way society is at that point in time. It puts on display what was valued, what was of concern, etc. This is true regardless of the genre.

    Changing scenes or using cgi to remove things we would now consider"problematic" is like erasing history.