Obligatory follow up since you are all amazing

Meet Nye!

I want to start this post out with a thanks to all of you from this community for the reassurance and advice, had I never came here I would have never met this wonderful kitten!

We adopted her at an estimated age of over a year. We confirmed with the provided documentation that she had all the necessary vaccinations and were assured all of their adoptees were spayed. Since then she has slipped right into routine, we’re coming up on three weeks now and from what I consider she’s part of the family now.

Actual question

Today she was exhibiting very interesting behavior, meowing constantly, rolling around and rubbing up against everything, and sticking her butt up in the air. We reached out to the humane society we had adopted her from and they marked her as spayed but upon further inspection noted her intake didn’t state if she had been already or not.

Now for the question, to spay or not? She is handling it well, exceptionally affectionate and a bit needy but okay otherwise, at least relative to what we hear from others. She’s an indoor cat, so pregnancy isn’t a concern, but apart from that what are the reasons for or against taking her to be spayed?

  • CreateProblems@corndog.socialEnglish
    19·
    2 months ago

    Fixed cats live longer. Spaying decreases the likelihood of cats developing certain types of cancers.

    Friends of mine literally last week had to put their cat down because she developed breast cancer and rapidly deteriorated (we’re talking painful skin ulcers here.) If the cat had been spayed at a young age, she would likely still be here.

    And as others have said, spaying is the wise choice in case she were ever to accidentally get outside.

  • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
    16·
    2 months ago

    Spay. There’s no reason not to. There are more cats than homes willing to take them in. My brother’s family adopted a kitty they found in their yard and she had two kittens at only one year old. The kitten that they kept has to be kept from his mom until he’s neutered or she’s spayed because cats will bang family members (I didn’t know this previously).

    As someone else pointed out, cats get outside unexpectedly. One of mine was missing for 24h after I didn’t secure a door properly. Glad she didn’t come home preggers cause she was spayed by the adoption agency.

    Congrats on your new friend!

  • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works
    14·
    2 months ago

    Spaying her will settle her hormones, give her one less reason to try to get out, and will stop any neighborhood tomcats from trying to get in! It’s very much worth doing. Afterwards she may need to wear a onesie for a little while to keep her from licking her stitches, you know how raspy kitty tongues can be.

  • QualifiedKitten@lemmy.worldEnglish
    13·
    2 months ago

    If she’s not spayed, there is a very high chance that she will find a way outdoors, and pregnancy is very draining on their bodies. They generally have quite a few kittens because so many of them don’t survive. My most recent foster momma came to me practically skin & bones, and we lost 2 out of 5 kittens. Kittens are super fragile, and you can do everything right, but still lose them. And if they do survive, the shelters are already overflowing with homeless cats, so many get euthanized purely due to lack of space.

  • VelvetStorm@lemmy.world
    12·
    2 months ago

    There is never a reason to not get her spayed. It helps with behavior and it reduces her chances of certain types of cancer as well as prevents her from having any kittens which the world does not need.

    • ERPAdvocate@sh.itjust.worksOP
      2·
      2 months ago

      After discussing these concerns with the vet we decided to move forward, she’s in this morning. The kittens were one of the main driving points behind making this decision, thank you!

  • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
    91·
    2 months ago

    I just want to point out that inside cats often find a way to become outside cats. Some never try, but don’t rule it out.

    Other than that, if she never gets out and you don’t get any more cats, I don’t see why it would be an issue not to.

  • David From SpaceAEnglish
    7·
    2 months ago

    In order to convince you she should be spayed, please look up what you need to do with a q-tip to a queen in heat to get any peace and quiet. It’s no fun for anyone involved.

  • trainsaresexy@lemmy.world
    6·
    2 months ago

    I found that our cat seemed more calm or at ease after she was spayed. I’m not a cat psychologist. From what I observed it seemed better for the cat to be spayed. She had also shown signs of the frisky behaviour. I’d be curious to know from people who didn’t spay their cats if that behaviour mellowed out, and how quickly.

  • FuglyDuck@lemmy.worldEnglish
    32·
    2 months ago

    day she was exhibiting very interesting behavior, meowing constantly, rolling around and rubbing up against everything,

    This is a good sign. she’s getting her scent on things, marking it as hers. (hopefully, you included.) This suggests she’s cozy enough to stake a claim.

    as for spaying- I would suggest it. though I’m sure you could get better explanations and an idea of why from a vet. (also as another said… inside cats sometimes like to escape. met my timeshare cat because he’s a carrot thief… and they were my carrots…)