• Dmian@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Yes. I felt pretty sorry for her when she showed me the book. This was one of the reasons I urged my (now ex) wife not to take my surname when we married.

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      1 year ago

      “But what if I divorce you!?”

      I’m sure you had more tact than that lol, but I can see some reasons around that choice being touchy subjects.

      • Dmian@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        “I have no right to make you lose your identity. You should always be you, regardless of your married status”. That was my argument.