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minus-squareMerva@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down3·1 month agoWhat if everyone didn’t expect you to tip? You vehemently defending the tipping system is part of why EVERYONE expects you to tip. That kind of aggressive apatheism is what makes the system continue.
minus-squareFlyingSpaceCow@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 month agoOkay, then at the very least when you walk in you should declare your intention to not tip. Still shitty towards the server that gets stuck with you, but now it causes conflict amongst the staff and brings the issue to a head.
What if everyone didn’t expect you to tip? You vehemently defending the tipping system is part of why EVERYONE expects you to tip.
That kind of aggressive apatheism is what makes the system continue.
Okay, then at the very least when you walk in you should declare your intention to not tip. Still shitty towards the server that gets stuck with you, but now it causes conflict amongst the staff and brings the issue to a head.