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Cake day: June 11th, 2025

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  • Oh, then there’s hope :) It sounds like there’s been a lot of introspection and a will to change course. Does she feel the same?
    For me I’ve been the one saying that our current lifestyle is not working for me. I’ve been saying it for 6 months and I don’t know what more I can do at this point. I wish I had hope. We have good days, but the fundamental issues remain.


  • pmk@piefed.catoProgrammer Humor@programming.devtechnical debt
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    1 day ago

    I’m sorry to hear that. How are you doing now? If you don’t mind me asking, if there was a point where things were still salvageable, do you think you were both aware of the direction things were heading? Did the realization come at the same time for both of you, or at different times that it was beyond that point? What were the critical signs?










  • pmk@piefed.catoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldWhat is fucking?
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    10 days ago

    I have never felt comfortable dancing in public, and thought it was because I was shy or something. Then I realized that I just didn’t like the music. Now I dance at home to Godspeed You! Black Emperor. I probably look insane doing that, but it comes naturally and feels good.