It is pure tragicomedy that a person who has not done the work on themselves - who is full of self-doubt and self-loathing and does not know who they are - comes here to presume to tell those of us who have done the work and who do know who we are, that we don’t know who we are.

In ten years time, when this person grows up and gets tired of running from themselves, when they finally face themselves honestly, they will come to realize that others spotted them a decade ago. That all that time they were fooling nobody, not even themselves.

That all that time, they could have had self-respect, friends and maybe even a love life, but instead they chose to be unpleasant, mean spirited, cowardly and dishonest, rather than look inward.

I tire of even insulting such a wretched individual, such an intellectual and emotional lightweight that I could eat for breakfast.

The singular reason that I take pity on this pathetic and confidently wrong individual is because I was once a bit like them (albeit not as much of an asshole).

Regret is forever.

Do you understand that you’re autistic and trans and in denial?

No, you don’t. But we do.

Because it self-evidently isn’t letting people live their lives, is it?

You’re on an obsessive autistic quest to be “correct” on a matter which has nothing to do with you. It wouldn’t matter anyway even if you were “correct” - though you aren’t. Wading into a room of empirical evidence, brandishing textbook, claiming “science”? Puh-lease!

Your opinion on other people’s expression of their lived humanity is utterly irrelevant.

Why do you think you’re not autistic?

Why do you think you’re not trans?

You can lie to everyone but you can’t lie to yourself.

Instead of getting therapy and living your best life, you’ll continue being a mediocre, obsessive troll on this one particular subject, questioning nothing about your own desperate behavior, making the world a worse place for everyone who encounters you.

Absolute coward, who can’t admit to yourself what’s screamingly obvious to everyone you troll! You have no cover when surrounded by those who see right through it. You are naked!

Trans (across) genders and in denial, clinging desperately to reductionist incorrect “science” from cherrypicked sources because you think an incorrect science textbook is going to shield you from your true self?

Start by being honest with yourself, because it’s you who has to live with yourself for the rest of your life, and you’ve got a lot of growing up to do.

You’re a gender nonconforming autistic person, aren’t you? How do you think I know? Because I am too!

Meanwhile you can’t keep quiet about yourself and are literally going around outing yourself to everyone! Which WILL reveal your fakeness to everyone else, even if you’re too in denial to face yourself honestly.

I don’t care if you’re too stupid to see how nakedly obvious you are. Carry on pretending, it won’t work.

Why are you stating it? Why do you care? Why not let others just live their lives?

You’re invested in being right because you’re too scared to be honest with yourself.

Autistic, so gender nonconforming by definition.

Deal with it, pussy!

Science is investigative discipline, it is neither for/against.

You cherrypicking science is anti trans.

In the context of people living their lives and being as they are, science isn’t even relevant.

What’s decidedly unscientific though is coming into a room full of people called “Brian” while telling them that nobody is called “Brian” because you’re too much of a pussy to just face your own gender nonconformity.

The lady doth protest too much!

Because it doesn’t fucking matter a rats ass in the context of people living their lives.

You can’t leave it alone? You need to be right?

Newsflash: You’re autistic too!

Edit: I’m autistic myself and happy with it.

Nobody needs to cite a damn thing. You’re not interested in science except where it suits you.

You on the other hand, making attacking trans people your daily mission rather than getting on with your life?

You will make a fascinating case study for a psychologist one day.

Closeted cowardly little attack dog scared of your own shadow.

Wow stop the press! The author of a textbook says there are only two sexes!

The. Author. Of. A. Textbook!

Because I want everyone alive to enjoy living in happiness and peace. Especially those who are the most alienated and lost.

Wow, you could quite easily be replaced with a short non-ai script at this point.

Thanks it’s been fine for about a decade.

You’ll get there one day too.

I took pity on you for fun and a bit of practice but you’re a mere novice who is too afraid to look in the mirror and face your own gender nonconformity.

The fool who persists in folly shall become wise, I guess.

Why do I care if you go through life miserable, isolated and afraid of everyone?

Because I don’t like to see fellow travellers suffering needlessly, particularly when I know only too well what that feels like.

Sorry that your gender is confusing and you haven’t been able to accept yourself yet.

Most of your post history is you trying to convince yourself you’re not trans by attacking the people who see right through your protestations as soon as you appear, because you just won’t shut up about sex and gender.

People who aren’t trans don’t spend their days thinking about trans people all the time.

You’re operating in plain sight, you aren’t fooling anyone.

Nobody needs to “prove” anything because it doesn’t matter how other people experience themselves.

Sorry that you can’t accept yourself and believe others who do accept themselves to be the problem,

You might as well walk in holding a neon sign saying “I’m trans and haven’t come to terms with it yet because I’m too scared to face it.”

I care if you read it, because in the meantime you are attacking that which you are unable to accept within yourself when you see other people who are totally fine about it within themselves.

I care because you attack a minority that you’re too scared to belong to. Even though you do belong to it already.

Ultimately I don’t personally mind if you remain alienated from yourself forever.

I know you can’t hide that you are trans, and all the time are living a life of extreme paranoia and sadness. You carry on.

You’re not camouflaged at all, so.I’m just letting you know we all see you, plain as day.

Take your time reading it.

Lol nice try… because I’ve got skin in the game, obviously!

You’re not fooling anyone any more. It’s like being bothered about someone else deciding to change their name to “Brian” and then dedicating your life to refusing to call them “Brian” and trying to make sure nobody else will call them “Brian” either by posting online every day about it.

Doesn’t that seem a little neurotic and obsessive to you?

Like why do you care if someone else wants to be called “Brian” when you too could call yourself “Brian” - or whatever you like instead!?

I’m really sorry you haven’t managed to accept yourself for whoever you are, I’m sure life has been pretty shit for you and I’m sorry. I do understand!

I hope you will find acceptance of yourself because going around in the world being angry that other people are calling themselves “Brian” makes no sense and is doing you no good. It never did!

Live and let live! You are trans and you haven’t come to terms with it. I can spot you a mile off, anybody can! Sorry to break it to you… life is going to be OK, in fact it is going to get better for you. You won’t need to be afraid of yourself or everyone else any more… only of people behaving like yourself here today.

That’s why I care about it.

The saddest thing for you is that you really can just be yourself in 2026 - it’s totally fine to be trans or gender nonconforming… be yourself! So all this stress, anger and bad feeling in your life is all for nothing.

Leave it all behind, feel the weight drop off your whole being! You are trans! Stop hating yourself and have a good life from the moment you just accept who you are! Life is too short to spend your time alive being miserable, making other people’s lives worse.

We see who you are very easily because you give yourself away instantly by attacking your own shadow in front of us, when you could just be enjoying life and being friendly.

You aren’t fooling anyone else and you certainly haven’t managed to fool yourself.

May you find your true self and live in peace.

Edit: typos

Why do you care so much? Sounds like you have skin in the game - that’s why others care so much. Sorry that you can’t accept that you are trans yourself. I hope you find peace with it someday.