In a lot of women subreddits they were asking men to not interact and if they did found one breaking the rule, they would simply ban them.
The truth is that there are a lot more of them online than us so I think we should as protective of our spaces as we can.
Outside of our spaces, there’s no big solution but personally I just block very very fast those that act like this. Spending any kind of energy on them is a big waste.
I tried but I often find it weird to be directly talked to in audio porn so I rarely use it.
The best thing you can do if you consume porn and can afford it is pay for things that are more in line with your morals and needs.
Last year, I had pinklabel, this year I have ersties. If I happen to go on pornhub, I only watch stuff from amateur couples that I know or that fit with my needs.
I’m gonna say it’s easier since I’m gay and only watch lesbian porn and I can’t watch straight men lesbian porn so it pushed me to find the actual good and ethical porn.
Well I’m gay sooooo… 😅
I love all of those. My guess is we both are xenial women :) I don’t know if it’s the 40s and nostalgia hitting me like a truck but I’ve been listening to mostly music from my teens these days. I even created a community for xenials on lemmy.ca and a playlist that I keep updating whenever I remember songs that are missing. And I realize now that I didn’t put any Tori Amos on there (shame on me 😅)
Hmm, I think it would be moon earth mushroom and sometimes flower 🤔
I’m all over the place.
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So many, here’s what I could gather on top of my head…
If you think you know that a woman is trans, you don’t.
If you see a woman getting yelled at or intimidated, you get your phone out and start recording subtly and ask her if she’s ok.
If you see a woman walking alone at night, ask her if you can accompany her and maybe share a cab.
If you see a woman leaving the bar alone, keep an eye out for someone following her.
If your friend is going on a first date, share location with each other and plan safety checks
If a woman you know has lost weight don’t compliment her about it unless she brings it up in a positive manner.
If a woman you know has gained weight, don’t talk about it Also don’t ever ask a woman when the baby is due unless she specifically told you she’s pregnant.
If a woman looks tired, unless its your closest friend and it’s unusual, don’t bring it up.
If a woman has any wardrobe or makeup malfunction, tell her subtly.
If a woman has a hard time and vents to you, don’t try to upstage her or say you understand because you lived something that you think is related but it’s not.
Don’t make her feel bad for her sex life ever.
Don’t bad talk your friend’s partners UNLESS you have serious suspicions they’re cheating on them.
Give confidence boosts whenever you can to woman around you.
Well the first thing was that way before we decided to have kids we both agreed that if we ever had kids then separated we would not have them live the chaos and woes that our own parents made us go through when they got separated and divorced. Our utopia was somehow co-owning a triplex and us having our own apartment and the kids being in the third unit so that we would be the one to switch every weeks but obviously that didn’t happen because we’re not rich 😅
But yeah, there’s a deep mutual respect between us and there’s obviously some kind of love but yeah, we make it work. It’s not always easy especially when we have relationships outside of our parenting relationship but with communication and boundaries it’s doable.
So yeah, I guess communication and having the same goals was the key to making this work.
My ex with which I had kids. We’re co-parenting but separated. We’re best friends. We separated in good terms and support each othet through everything.
It’s a fuzzy micro-generation, it’s considered to be people who were born approximately between 1977 and 1985. We define generations by social trends and researchers find that the events, tools & technology present during their youth greatly impact how a generation interacts with and view the world.
Gen X was well into adulthood when the internet and social media appeared and Millenials were so young that they basically had it their whole lives. Xenials are the ones that lived through the technological shift during their youth and teens.
There is a point in life where you can’t just throw out a good jar or a good box. That threshold was 35 years old for me 😅