Diva (she/her)

You figured it out, but on lemmy.ml at least everyone shows that icon, if they’re on server or not. It is actually useful because you can view a thread from their server POV

Another soulist! are you all on the same discord?

Mind Traveler and Liberty Hub are on good terms with one another.

the person banned for genocide denial really seems like they would have their finger on the pulse of the instance they were banned from!

You’re speculating that because minorities are being annoying about standing up for their humanity that they must not actually be interested in their rights at all… because in the process it might turn off people who get offended by rude behavior. For a lot of trans people the rude behavior is the lesser offense.

If that’s the case, then Hexbear, you guys can go fuck yourselves. I saw what you said about me.

I’m not going to mince words because I just posted about the issue with tone policing minorities raising issues. If you want to look sincere in the context of all these other interactions I would suggest trying to steer away from gendered language to refer to a whole group of people which we just established includes a significant potion of non-cis people.

They’re allowed to be assholes, I can be a raging removed when I need to. I sincerely doubt the goal of anyone there is ‘convincing them to hate the trans identity’ and if a person they interact with is at the point of hating all trans people because someone was rude to them online that sounds like they already did, and were looking for an excuse.

I just highlighted it because if someone’s going to say bigoted things because they got ‘baited’, that reflects poorly on them, and them alone. If they are incapable of taking criticism from minorities they interact with, that’s a fault on their part, not the minorities for not being ‘nice’ enough.

I fixed your post so it looks more sincere.

It really shouldn’t have to come to posting estradiol every time some lemmy user tells me I’m not trans.

I can afford them but a that’s not something that can be said for all trans people. We are over-represented when it comes to living outside and without social supports and as a result don’t tend to have access to decent medical care. Being poor doesn’t invalidate anyones trans identity.

Part of building a space we can actually participate in means building a culture of showing no quarter for questioning peoples identities like that. It doesn’t matter if you disagree with them politically, it’s totally unacceptable to deny them who they are.