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Cake day: May 11th, 2024

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  • Cats can be so different at a shelter or even at a foster home than they will be when they get settled. I remember my sister was told the cat she got was “a little playful” like if you made an effort, but twenty minutes after the cat settled in she was flipping her shit over a string toy. Even years later, sick, tired, and elderly, she’d dredge up some energy to bat at a toy.


  • Definitely see if the mood fluctuations and cramping keeps happening on a schedule. It can help a bit knowing you’re moody because of hormones. I’ve always been irregular, so sometimes I’ll get my period and realize what was going on with my mood the last couple days.

    My mood swings were way worse during puberty, so it’s likely your body will adjust eventually. Lots of people also have periods that they need help through, as well, so you might end up needing (pharmaceutical) help through yours once enough time has passed that the initial intensity should have settled a bit.

    I remember as a teen just really needing to cry sometimes, so I had some books that I’d read at those times and when I was done crying, I’d feel more even. Try stuff out. If one month it’s an angrier feeling, listen to loud angry music or punch a pillow. Finding healthy ways to feel and express intense emotions during these times seemed to help ride it out for me.