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Cake day: June 4th, 2025

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  • A lot of the time I think I haven’t been clear enough that I dont want sex, I’m always so confused when it happens. I have ptsd from a rape that almost killed me, now my response to any advances is to freeze up and dissociate

    Anyeay, I’m ace, and I tried dating someone on an ace specific site. We met up at an Airbnb (we lived in different states), and I kept saying that it made me uncomfortable how many men take my playful conversation style and laughter as an invitation to sex. And that under no circumstances did I want that. You can probably guess what happened.

    I haven’t dated since then, because it’s apparently the only way I can be safe. I don’t think all men are like this, and I’m sure a couple would be horrified if they realized I wasn’t consenting.










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    29 days ago

    I only recognize the top left.

    My mother incessantly played Fiddler on the Roof (1971) during holiday season. No one in my family is Jewish, so I’m not sure why she felt that was a good choice for holiday cheer. Anyway, I hate that movie (and musicals in general), but still hear “If I were a rich man” and “Tradition” in my head throughout December






  • My friends and I all have autism and/or ADHD, and a slew of physical and mental health diagnoses. It can be like this sometimes, but we have lots of days that we’re sharing silly or mundane things.

    I think it’s important to have people in your life that can validate your feelings when something stressful comes up, but that can also establish and maintain boundaries. We’re not therapists, even if we have a ton of experience with therapy, ya know?