Depending on what you have a taste for, I seem to remember seeing this in Emacs:

https://github.com/magit/forge

All I can is that I’m sorry this is happening to you guys. Are there specific ways others can help?

Yep. I know someone that does related work for a living, and there are definite time limits and so on for exactly the reasons you say. This kind of stuff leaves a mark on normal people.

Sounds like a digital form of SWATing.